The quiet road through society
The center problem for deviant behavior is seeking approvals/affirmation. Approval for achievements, appearance, nature of business, job, income, certificate, talent even intellectual prowss. 

If not there won’t be the constant need to prove something, to show something, to try so hard to shape individuals mind to your preference of acceptance. All this stems down from lack of community, actual community that is the branch of blood family, an extended blood hood that holds no prejudice towards one’s individuality.

Because of this lack of a community there will always be a need to seek approval from communities that have been digitize, communities of people that never saw you grow up, and so tempted to correct you or judge you, shape you to the actual feature of a community they lack: Acceptance.
So because of this they come up with the symbolism that anyone can be family regardless if the person is not blood because anyone can be family.

This is also a sign of a dysfunctional background, where the sense of community was not well groomed.
As everyone lacks the actual community what we would have is strife among kins, brothers, sisters, people will become aliens in their own home town simply because they themselves or others have seeked alternative community. 

This is why the world/soceity is the way it is because the digitize community never strives on because of its’ judgemental, ever seeking to change and shape you nature. Leading to the now stage of individuality being loneliness because nobody gets you!.

What where you expecting, because you won best couple in secondary school, you thought it was enough to advance into a serious relationship. If we were all smart in secondary as we are now, we would have told ebuka and kelechi to grow up. But we celebrated their false partnership.

Everyday was another day for ebuka and kelechi to raise shoulders, no day you won’t see them arriving school together, leaving together, eating together. To the height of it ebuka would rather be flogged in place of kelechi. Is this what love is, of course I believed what did I know, i was terrible in chemistry so how can I determine the right feelings of two people.

After a while, it became a frenzy everybody wanted to be a power couple, some had to settle for less just to be popular. As for me, I just sat back and drool in sadness, I wasn’t much of a talker but if I had sense then like now, I would have told everybody in that class how stupid they were. Time passed on till V.S, I had to admit that day was fun for all, I didn’t mind EbuChi and their couple behaviour, it’s allowed. But they had other plans.

I noticed ebuka and kelechi were not on the dancing floor as the rest of us, I don’t know what pushed me, I went looking for them. I went to the second floor, walked pass 3 classes, it was quiet but the noise from outside echoed through. The next turn were staircase leading up and down, I went up, then I heard what could possibly be the screeching sound of a chair, someone was up here, I reduced my steps, I was sneaky. What I saw next was probably every teenagers desire, ebuka was buckling his belt, kelechi was adjusting her skirt, I was no fool to know what had just happened.

How lucky ebuka was, expecting a cheerful act from the two, there wasn’t, I looked at them both as they walked together towards the gate, never once did kelechi look into ebuka eyes, ebuka tried grabbing kelechi arm but she shrugged off. I don’t know if they ever saw again but I doubt they would.

It was at that moment I knew I wasn’t going to build my relationship based of people’s approval. If it didn’t feel right, people’s approval won’t matter.

These are set of people who don’t know the true meaning of love, but in their mindset love means selection of satisfaction. I am grateful to God to see ladies that don’t have choice of men but acceptance of a man’s conviction. 

Jezebels that love on categories of little achievement, even selfies in a fine toilet is enough to win them over. Love monsters, not because they need it but to prove to you in the end that they can live without it. 

The Jezebels of these generation determine your future based on your swag, material possession, friends on high standard etc. 

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton